The Chrisley family has never shied away from drama—on-screen or off. Once celebrated as reality television’s golden clan in Chrisley Knows Best, their fall from grace has been just as captivating as their rise.

With Todd and Julie Chrisley now serving lengthy prison sentences for bank fraud and tax evasion, their daughter Savannah Chrisley has stepped into the spotlight as the family’s voice during

its darkest chapter. But a recent admission from Savannah has shocked fans and sparked heated debate: she openly confessed that she will miss her father, Todd, more than her mother, Julie.

It’s a statement that reveals not only the deep complexities of family bonds but also the raw grief Savannah is experiencing as she tries to navigate life without her parents at home.

Mourning the Living

In a candid moment on her podcast, released just before Thanksgiving, Savannah admitted that she was grieving her parents as though they had died. Her words ignited a wave of criticism. Many fans took to social media to argue that it was distasteful to speak about her parents in such a way while they were still very much alive.

But Savannah doubled down. She explained in a follow-up episode that the pain she feels is not exaggerated—it is the pain of losing parents to circumstances that feel permanent, even if not final. “It’s hard to grieve someone who isn’t actually gone,” she said. “But when they’re taken away from you, when your daily life changes forever, it feels like mourning.”

And then came the revelation that left fans stunned: Savannah admitted that she misses Todd in a way that she doesn’t miss Julie.

The Father-Daughter Bond

For Savannah, Todd Chrisley has never been just a father. He has been her confidant, her protector, and her biggest supporter. Throughout her childhood and young adulthood, Savannah leaned on Todd in ways that were obvious to fans of the show. Whether it was seeking advice on career moves, handling friendships, or even just venting after a long day, Todd was the first call she made.

“He just gets me,” Savannah confessed. “I can walk into a room, and he knows immediately when something is wrong. He’s my safe space—the one person I could always fall apart with, and he would help me put the pieces back together again.”

That bond, she admits, makes his absence almost unbearable. Despite being an adult herself, Savannah still found comfort in her father’s constant guidance. Now, with Todd behind bars for 12 long years, she is facing the reality of living without the one person who always seemed to understand her completely.

Julie’s Quiet Strength

Savannah’s comment wasn’t intended to diminish her mother’s importance. Julie Chrisley, who is serving a seven-year sentence, has long been known as the steady, quiet force within the family. Where Todd was flamboyant, outspoken, and larger-than-life, Julie brought balance, wisdom, and calm.

“Mom is incredible,” Savannah explained. “But our bond is different. She’s strong and steady in a way that doesn’t need constant communication. With Dad, everything has always been about connection and guidance. That’s why I miss him differently.”

It’s not about favoritism, Savannah insists, but about dynamics. Julie’s love is unwavering, secure, and constant, while Todd’s presence was active, vocal, and deeply intertwined in Savannah’s day-to-day life. Losing that constant interaction has left her feeling untethered.

The Role Reversal

Adding to Savannah’s grief is the enormous responsibility that has fallen on her shoulders since her parents’ sentencing. She is now the primary caregiver for her younger brother Grayson and her niece Chloe. In many ways, she has had to step into the role that Todd once played—the rule enforcer, the provider, and the decision-maker.

“It feels like I inherited Dad’s job,” she admitted on her podcast. “But I don’t have his energy, his confidence. I catch myself wanting to call him, to ask, ‘Am I doing this right?’ Not being able to do that is the hardest part.”

The weight of responsibility, combined with her grief, has only deepened Savannah’s longing for her father’s presence. While she naturally connects with Julie’s nurturing side, filling Todd’s shoes as the family’s leader has been a challenge she never anticipated.

Fans React

Savannah’s confession has divided fans. Some sympathized, acknowledging that father-daughter bonds can often be uniquely strong. “Savannah and Todd were always like two peas in a pod,” one fan tweeted. “Of course she’s going to miss him differently than Julie. That doesn’t mean she loves her mom any less.”

Others, however, criticized her for making such a public statement, arguing that it appeared to pit one parent against the other. “How do you think Julie feels hearing that?” one critic asked on Instagram. “Both parents are gone, and she deserves the same recognition.”

But longtime viewers of Chrisley Knows Best understand that Savannah’s words come from a place of honesty rather than disrespect. The father-daughter dynamic was always one of the most compelling aspects of the show. Their playful arguments, heartfelt conversations, and even their fiery disagreements were central to the Chrisley family’s appeal.

Honesty Over Image

What makes Savannah’s statement so powerful is its raw honesty. Most people would hesitate to admit that they miss one parent more than the other, fearing judgment or accusations of favoritism. But Savannah has never been afraid to speak her truth, even when it leaves her vulnerable to criticism.

Her confession highlights an often-overlooked reality: family love is complex. It doesn’t always look equal or balanced, and that doesn’t make it any less genuine. Missing one parent “more” is not about loving them more—it’s about the specific role that parent played in a child’s life. For Savannah, Todd’s absence feels louder because his presence was always so commanding.

Looking Ahead

Despite the heartbreak, Savannah continues to fight through the challenges. She writes letters to her father, treasures every phone call, and even admits that she tries to channel his voice when making difficult decisions. “I hear him in my head all the time—even when I don’t want to,” she said with a laugh.

At the same time, she acknowledges her mother’s strength and steady love as a source of comfort. Julie’s quiet resilience gives Savannah hope that their family will weather this storm, no matter how long the road ahead may be.

Conclusion: The Loudest Silence

Savannah Chrisley’s admission that she will miss her father Todd more than her mother Julie has opened a window into the complicated, deeply personal realities of family bonds under extraordinary strain. It isn’t about loving one parent more than the other—it’s about recognizing the unique roles each played in her life.

Todd was her fire, her loudest cheerleader, and her fiercest critic. Julie is her rock, steady and constant, even from a distance. Together, they shaped the woman she has become.

As Savannah continues to raise her siblings, fight for her parents’ appeals, and carry the Chrisley legacy forward, one truth remains clear: Todd’s absence leaves the loudest silence in her life. And in admitting that, Savannah has given voice to a universal truth—love can be equal, but grief is never the same.