In a candid and surprisingly heartfelt episode of their Chrisley Confessions Podcast on Wednesday, November 12th, Todd, 56, and Julie, 52, opened up about a topic

that most couples never dare to discuss: who they would date if the unthinkable happened and one of them passed away. The conversation, part playful, part poignant,

gave fans an intimate look at the couple’s bond, their values, and the logic behind life after love.

“All of our children have said if something happens to you, they would want me with somebody else,” Todd told Julie during the episode. But, as they both quickly acknowledged, the kids’ logic came with its quirks. “But if you were with someone else, they said, that’s not happening,” he laughed, shaking his head. The couple, married since 1996, are parents to Chase, 29, Savannah, 28, and Grayson, 19, and also help raise 13-year-old Chloe, Todd’s granddaughter from his son Kyle’s previous relationship.

Julie weighed in with her perspective, reflecting on her kids’ reasoning. “I shouldn’t find a new partner if Todd died? I’m their mother and I’ve been there like you have. It’s a double standard,” she explained. Even the children, Julie noted, seemed to hold conflicting ideas about love and loss, though she accepted their logic with a mix of humor and disbelief.

Yet, when the roles were reversed, Julie admitted she would actually want Todd to find love again if she unexpectedly passed. “Yes, I would,” she said, soft but honest. “You’re not a person to be by yourself. You’d be too needy for your kids. You’re a companion, a relationship kind of person.”

However, Julie had a much firmer stance on her own romantic future without Todd. “In all seriousness,” she explained, “because I’m 52 years old, a 55-year-old, 60-year-old—they don’t want a 52-year-old. Reality is, I would have to date someone older, and I’m just not interested.” Julie further explained that navigating life with new partners, stepchildren, and grandchildren simply wasn’t appealing. “No, thank you,” she said emphatically, “I’m not interested.”

Todd, on the other hand, had a decidedly more flexible approach to future romance. “She’s put me out here and said I am not eligible to date older women,” he joked directly to the podcast camera. “If you have enough money, I’ll knock the cobwebs off. So, I’m here for you,” he quipped with his trademark southern charm.

The discussion was even more meaningful given the couple’s recent reunion. After spending two years apart due to their respective prison sentences, Todd and Julie were granted presidential pardons and early release, bringing them back together. In reflecting on their future, Julie admitted, “I want us to enjoy life. I hope and pray our health stays good and that we can travel, see our children’s relationships develop, and witness the next generation. We’re playing catch-up a lot.”

What made the podcast especially captivating was how the conversation originated: a playful, yet shocking prompt from their daughter Savannah. While filming a video challenge, Savannah brought out a stack of cards for her parents to answer. Most were innocent—favorite holidays, first kisses, funniest sibling—but one rogue card asked: “If your partner died, what kind of person would you date next?”

Todd’s dramatic southern-boy reaction set the stage. “Savannah Faith Chrisley,” he gasped, eyes wide. “Why in the world would you bring this into my house? Are you trying to kill your daddy off for views?” Savannah laughed, insisting the question was purely hypothetical. Julie, stirring her coffee, smiled softly. “Well, considering your father already believes a paper cut is a near-death experience, I suppose it’s harmless,” she teased.

Todd initially tried to dodge the question entirely. “Absolutely none. I’d enter a monastery,” he said, to which Julie raised an eyebrow. “A monastery? Todd, you can’t go three hours without attention,” she pointed out. Savannah snorted, reminding her dad that he thrives on attention—even in the grocery store. Todd protested, of course, claiming, “Because it is!”

Julie went first in answering the card, considering Todd hypothetically gone. “I would date someone gentle, smart, someone who doesn’t bring drama, who isn’t exhausting, who doesn’t pick fights with neighbors,” she admitted. Todd immediately argued, “I didn’t pick that fight—it was civic duty!” The room erupted in laughter. Julie continued, “I’d want someone handy, who can fix things.” Todd made a choking sound. “I am handy!” he protested. The family reminded him of past mishaps—fallen bookshelves, dryers catching fire—but Julie patted his hand. “Baby, you’re many things, but you’re not a fixer. You’re a caller.”

Todd, finally conceding, asked Julie who her ideal partner would be. She smiled softly. “I wouldn’t be looking for someone flashy. I’d want someone steady, calm, someone who values peace.” Todd blinked, incredulous. “So…the opposite of me?” “Not the opposite,” Julie replied, “just different. Someone who doesn’t need to monologue before bedtime.”

When Todd shared his hypothetical preferences if Julie were gone, the answer was dramatic yet tender. “I’d never date again because my heart would shatter into a million pieces,” he admitted. But if forced by loneliness, he envisioned someone refined, classy, elegant—a partner who looked good, understood style, and could handle the spotlight that followed him. “She must be kind, patient, and have a good sense of humor because I’m a handful,” Todd added. Julie softened, “You are my handful,” she said, a quiet moment of intimacy passing over the room.

For fans watching, this conversation revealed so much more than a hypothetical “who would you date?” scenario. It showed the Chrisleys’ enduring love, humor, and genuine concern for one another, even as they playfully navigate the notion of life without the other. Savannah pointed out the contrast in their choices: Julie wants a practical handyman, while Todd imagines a glamorous fashion queen. “You really are opposites,” she laughed. Todd and Julie simply smiled at each other, hands intertwined, proving that sometimes opposites do, in fact, attract—and stay together.

The discussion also gave insight into the Chrisleys’ parenting, reflecting on how their children perceive love, loss, and family. Todd and Julie’s openness—mixed with humor and humility—made a difficult subject both relatable and deeply human. It reminded viewers that even reality TV stars, known for drama and fashion, grapple with universal questions about love, grief, and what comes next.

As the episode concluded, it was clear that while neither Todd nor Julie is actively planning to seek romance outside their marriage, both recognize the realities of life. Todd’s flirtatious quips and Julie’s practical boundaries balanced the conversation, creating a poignant, entertaining, and unforgettable podcast moment.

Fans left the episode buzzing, commenting on the Chrisleys’ honesty, charm, and heart. In a world where reality TV often focuses on conflict, this discussion stood out as an intimate glimpse into the complexities of love, family, and resilience.

Todd and Julie Chrisley’s conversation about dating after death was more than a playful hypothetical—it was a window into their enduring partnership, their humor, and their approach to family. They’ve been through trials, separation, and the public eye, yet their bond remains a testament to love, patience, and understanding.

For now, the Chrisleys continue to focus on rebuilding their lives post-prison, cherishing their family, and enjoying each other’s company. But as this podcast episode proved, even in the hypothetical world of loss and future love, their hearts remain deeply connected—and fans everywhere are captivated by every heartfelt word.